Now we are hearing "Well...what happened to Beem? Is he a flash in the pan? That is only rivalled by "What's going on with Tiger?" We, of course, don't have access to their minds so we really don't know THEIR answers. But we know something about the human condition that will lend you a clue.
In Beem's case, it is called things like "letdown," "morning after," or "can't stand prosperity." Actually, it's more direct than that. Anytime your system, mine, or anyone else's passes a milstone (not to be confused with kidney stone), it produces a jolt (shock) to the system. It's part of the 97% unconscious mode of thinking. The human system does not recognize any difference between what our conscious minds want to see as "good" or "bad." The system doesn't know - or care - whether that jolting shock it just got came because you won the lottery or because you four-putted a green from five feet. It just reacts to the "jolt."
New scenario. If you think for one minute that winning the PGA championship was not a shock to Beem's system, then you aren't eligible to make a comment here. If you can see that, then read on.
Continue the theme on the human system. Whenever there is that kind of shock, it produces a sense of "loss." What? you say! He won, for crying out loud! True, he did, but that win also calls for new responsibility and giving up his old position in life and the game. Now there are demands from everywhere and there goes the neighborhood - that special part of what we call freedom - out the window. That's a loss. So there has to be time for the system to do its thing to recover. And that thing is this:
The shock of winning is followed by confusion, and then anger, and then depression and finally a return to normal. (All golfers have witnessed this phenomenon by making a birdie and following it with a bogie or double). It is a constant, certain to occur cycle. No one is immune. No situation can receive a free ride or pass. It's in the book, the cards and our lives.
So what about Tiger. If he is not worn out by the load all of us have asked him to carry, he ought to be. He is fatigued. That is also a loss. Give him time to ride out the cycle. He will be back, and it is quite likely that you will see Rich Beem again, too.
Give them all a break. They are, after all, Human Beings, just like you and me.
In Beem's case, it is called things like "letdown," "morning after," or "can't stand prosperity." Actually, it's more direct than that. Anytime your system, mine, or anyone else's passes a milstone (not to be confused with kidney stone), it produces a jolt (shock) to the system. It's part of the 97% unconscious mode of thinking. The human system does not recognize any difference between what our conscious minds want to see as "good" or "bad." The system doesn't know - or care - whether that jolting shock it just got came because you won the lottery or because you four-putted a green from five feet. It just reacts to the "jolt."
New scenario. If you think for one minute that winning the PGA championship was not a shock to Beem's system, then you aren't eligible to make a comment here. If you can see that, then read on.
Continue the theme on the human system. Whenever there is that kind of shock, it produces a sense of "loss." What? you say! He won, for crying out loud! True, he did, but that win also calls for new responsibility and giving up his old position in life and the game. Now there are demands from everywhere and there goes the neighborhood - that special part of what we call freedom - out the window. That's a loss. So there has to be time for the system to do its thing to recover. And that thing is this:
The shock of winning is followed by confusion, and then anger, and then depression and finally a return to normal. (All golfers have witnessed this phenomenon by making a birdie and following it with a bogie or double). It is a constant, certain to occur cycle. No one is immune. No situation can receive a free ride or pass. It's in the book, the cards and our lives.
So what about Tiger. If he is not worn out by the load all of us have asked him to carry, he ought to be. He is fatigued. That is also a loss. Give him time to ride out the cycle. He will be back, and it is quite likely that you will see Rich Beem again, too.
Give them all a break. They are, after all, Human Beings, just like you and me.
